You attract partners who are at your level of maturity and emotional intelligence. So instead of constantly shopping for the person you want to spend your life with, become the person you want to spend
Healing your traumas is one of the most important missions you can take on in your life. But if you are trying to get over the wounds of your childhood, particularly the limited beliefs that parents have
Pia Mellody calls this unconditional positive regard (an appropriation of the Rogerian term wonderfully defined in the comments below). And expecting it from your partner is a hallmark of a dysfunctional
A reader asked, "What if you treat it as a craft or an art?" Answer: If it’s a craft or art you feel a responsibility to that’s so great and meaningful, you make it a commitment and priority.